Fed up

My mother in law promised she would stop pushing back and be respectful she even said "you two are the parents." To me she could care less. She is so disrespectful and it's exhausting.

Prime example today she said she is making our son a room in her home with a crib so she can have him in November and he can live there. I said no he has a room and a crib at his house and he won't be staying there. She pushes back and says well we have time to talk about it again. NO I said we have talked about it and it is a No.

She is so disrespectful. I have to have surgery in November and won't be able to care for my baby for 8 weeks. This is a struggle enough for me but to take him away from me and have him live else where HELL NO! She doesn't respect when I say no, no thank you, or give explanations.

My husband is on board that she needs to stop doing this. She only does it when he is not around and neither is her husband.