Won’t stay hard?

Question

So my boyfriend won’t stay hard all the time when we have sex. And it’s sooo frustrating and it SUCKS! I always am riding and he won’t really try anything new . I will give him the head of his fucking life and he won’t even stay hard sometimes. I don’t get it. And my sex drive is too high to not get pleased. Fml. Help me.

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Unfortunately it just happens to some people, it can have a bunch of causes.
I had an ex on antidepressants who was very much like you describe. 
Yeah, your partner isn't always going to please you or be able to, unfortunately it's a fact of life & no one is really responsible for someone elses sex drive, even though it's FRUSTRATING not to have sex or release from sex. 
If he won't try anything new that can be even more frustrating, like hopefully there are other ways he can please you when this happens at least sometimes. 
I'd definitely say be kind about it, it's not his fault, it can be embarrassing for men and he might not know why it's happening.

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My boyfriend went through a soft spell too, could be he’s thinking about other things to stop from cumming too fast then just loses it from distraction, also If he knows you’re really upset about it it’s extra pressure on him too, we went through a solid 2 months where my boyfriend couldn’t keep it up because it happened once and every time after that he was thinking about “oh no what if it happens again” and boom, soft. It took one really good makeup sex sesh for him to bounce back and that gave him the confidence boost he needed back, haven’t had any issues since. You just need to encourage him and make him feel like it’s not a big deal, the mess pressure and shame he feels, the better. Also depending on his health and age it could be low testosterone too, have him go get some bloodwork

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He can’t help it. It isn’t his fault. There are many reasons for a man to lose his election. Have you thought about bringing in toys into the bedroom? Getting angry at him won’t bring forth anything positive and it will make him feel more ashamed. He should go to the doctor and get checked. He could also be distracted during sex and lose his erection. 
It happens. It’s nothing to be angry over.

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Have you asked it about it? Has it always been like this?

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My ex husband had the same problem. He ended up having to go to the doc and get pills (after we got divorced 🙄)

Won’t stay hard?

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