Without me

I guess my boyfriend’s dad decided he was going to buy us silverware, cups, plastic bowls, and food for my bf and I’s apartment today. Not saying I don’t appreciate it, but isn’t that a thing bf and I should do...? They’re shopping for appliances and food without me, and I’m just feeling weird about it since I guess I’m not involved in the decision making. I wanted the silverware and cups to match the set we got, and had a specific one picked out I was going to buy later tonight along with going grocery shopping since my bf has a different taste palate than I do. Ugh... I know for a fact he’s not going to want to go the the store tonight like we originally planned because his dad already bought HIM food he eats daily. Then there’s me 😕 Feeling pretty left out rn. It’s moving day and I have no idea what’s happening. Just sitting in my room with everything packed, waiting for someone to show up. It’s currently 12:30 and we need to go sign the lease at 2:00. Friends are showing up to bf’s place at 1:00. We’re running late all because his family wants EVERYTHING he owns up there TODAY. That’s just not going to happen. Nobody is messaging me back.