Help please ....

I’m really stuck on who to take in with me when I go into labour my husband says he doesn’t know if he will be able to watch it but he said he would try I’m not even sure if I want him there though... scared it might ruin our sex life and he won’t look at me the same again anyone got any experience with this he’s got quite old fashioned ways most of the men in his family don’t stay with the woman when she is giving birth is it best to get someone else if he seems so unsure about it I don’t want to traumatise him of me🤷🏼‍♀️