Maybe it’s my expectations... my boyfriend just reconnected with an old high school friend. We all went to school together. He refuses to tell his friend that we’re together. His friend, not knowing this, has been texting me nonstop. I asked my BF why cant you tell him. My BF says his friend is “just lonely, let it be. if he brings it up, you tell him.” It’s my BFs friend! Why do I gotta do it?! Maybe my BF is testing me?!

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I’m not attracted to this guy at all, but he is very sensitive and I don’t wanna hurt him. I feel like my BF not telling him we’re together is a cruel joke. What do you think?