I need some advice

A close family friend who has been like a mom to me since I was very very little, miscarried about 2-3 years ago, roughly.

I am now pregnant with my first and when we spilled the beans she wasn’t really excited like I thought she was going to be.

I want to give her space as I’m sure every new pregnancy around her is a reminder of what she went through, but at the same time I was hoping to share every moment with her.

Anyone who has been on either side of this, can you give me some advice? How long do I give her space? Do I wait for her to reach out to me again? I just feel like I’m stuck in a rough spot.