My insecurities and my boyfriend

So this is gonna be a long one. I've been thinking about how I'm gonna write this for days now so here I go.

I got into a semi new relationship. No more then a year old now. Lately I have been very self conscious and just hate the way I look. I dont feel sexy.

Now my new boyfriend and I use to have awesome sex for hours and have alot of fun. Now not so much. I understand that sometimes people/couples go through draughts as I like to call them. I know it can be normal. But i know there is way more to this. When i try to be sexy and play with him, he says no or another excuse like he didnt shave or something. I understand the word no so I leave it be but it does take a hit and makes me feel undesirable. And it happens everytime I try something. So I just stopped trying now. Sex use to be a awesome thing with us but now I'm lucky if I get some once a month that lasts more then 3 mins.

Now there is also the fact that when we watch movies or tv shows he always compliments very attractive women. Now I am bi sexual and he knows this and I dont mind complimenting a lady or two but recently it's to the point that I just constantly compare myself to these ladies.

Now he is watching alot of porn while I'm asleep. Which makes me feel worse. Now I dont mind watching porn. I watch it myself because I have needs and he wont have sex with me. But I try and still do sometimes and he says no so I just feel like it's all me. Like I dont even know what to try and when I do try and talk about it it's always a joke.

Now other then all this our relationship Is amamzing. He is super funny and kind. He gives me lots of snuggles. We try and have a good time. So I really dont know if it's in my head or not.

P.s. I guess what I'm asking is am I overreacting? Is it normal to feel this way? Should I confront him? I'm afraid he will think I'm overreacting. Should I leave it be? Should I move on? Thanks ladies 💜