VBAC vs 2nd C pros and cons

I had my first in Jan 2017 via emergency C. Healing went well. No complications or issues. 2nd is due Apr 2020. My first will be 3. I know vaginal is going to be easier recovery with a 3 year old around. But I also know I’m high risk and they’ll want to induce at 39 weeks which will likely lead to another emergency C. I’m wondering how bad C recovery with a 3 year old is, and if I should risk having an emergency C going for a VBAC or just take the risk out and schedule it.

Anyone been there? Any thoughts I should consider in this decision?