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Question

My husband & i had a great sex life. We've been married for a few years now. I had our son 5 months ago & got on the nexplanon 4 months ago. I'm also breastfeeding. Lately my sex drive has been going down. We usually have sex when our son goes to sleep, but now i don't even look foward to it. I'm not really in the mood. I feel like i HAVE to do it. 
He got sick a few weeks ago & we didn't have sex for a whole 3 weeks. it's been a month since he went down on me. He expect me to suck his dick , but he will not go down on me. 😒 It's so frustrating, because he knows how much i love that shit. I know he can see the frustration everytime we have sex... Idk y'all.. 😒

Answer

Definitely sounds like you guys need to communicate here. I know that a lot of men get affected by women having a baby, because it's a lot to see for a guy! Talk about this with him and see what's going on and if he does want to have sex, maybe find something that you guys used to do before the baby that spices the sex life up.

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I was told that’s not a good bc for breastfeeding. I know not on topic. But did the dr know your breastfeeding? No issues? I had a hard time finding a good bc so I don’t take any. Ha. But I have taken nexplanon in the past and it made me weird and I hated it. Got it taken out ASAP. :( it may be the hormones in it

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Did he give you a reason for not wanting to go down on you? Sounds like you guys have to find a way to spice things back up

Is this common?

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