“”adult time””

Okay, baby is 4 months old. Hubby and I have only done “”adult time”” three times so far 🤦🏻‍♀️ Poor man....

My Issue is that everything feels so tight... I had no tearing or stitches. I don’t know what’s going on but it’s not like before, it honestly feels tighter then before baby. It hurts and really makes me not want “”adult time””.

My mom told me “what a dream” and “what a lucky man”, but it’s no fun for anyone. We have tried lubes and it hasn’t helped us. I’m at my wits end, will this just be a slow adjustment and go back to normal? Or should I bring it up to a doctor?

I’m going to have to give my husband “adult time” Sooner then later and I’m pretty nervous about it already 🤦🏻‍♀️