Would you tell him you want him to get a job?

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We were high school sweethearts. I’m a junior in college now and my boyfriend hasn’t had a job since we got out of high school. He has bipolar, depression and anxiety and uses that was an excuse to not work. He’s 20 years old. He’s trying to get on social security for his mental illness but keeps getting denied. He goes out in public and parties all of the time so personally I think he is more than capable of working. He spends his parents’ money (who are struggling financially) and complains if he can’t spend their money. I pay for every date. Would you tell him to get a job?