How do I tell him?

Question

This is my first bf that can’t get fully erected but then again he smokes everyday. How do I tell him I want him to be fully erected and he should lay off the smoking to see if that changes??
This man is always getting defensive and states I’m “too” blunt.
So how’d you tell your partner?

Answer

Say one compliment and one feedback. Ex: Baby, you’re so hot. I loved (whatever sexy thing y’all do). Do you think next time, we can get you even more hard so we do (sexy thing)? ....
And see where that takes you. But yeah, I would definitely bet it’s the marijuana ruining his boner.

Answer

It's hard to say if the smoking is causing it, some guys just have a hard time getting or staying hard, and it nay not be within his control.
So i guess personally, I work with whatever I have *shrug* that means with some partners, we didn't always have penetrative sex even if we were intimate. Or, in one relationship I had, where the guy had ED, we'd agree that we were not going to do anything sexual, because he was way to anxious about sex and wanted to relax.

Answer

Smoking doesn’t cause someone to be less erect maybe spice things up a bit lol? try something new

How do I tell him?

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