Is it ok to feel this way?

Question

Please don’t judge me I have 4 kids and I don’t want them I’m feeling sad I love my kids to death but I just feel like I’m to young and want to enjoy my life and just basically be in love I’m stuck with them and can’t accomplish anything I’m also depressed.

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This is a completely normal feeling for any mom to go through from time to time. 
Definitely does sound like you are struggling with depression though as you’ve stated the feeling depressed. It would be great for you to talk with someone about it and or find your “Rat Park” 
If you haven’t seen the show The Letdown: “Rat Park” is a term used for finding something for you, that makes you feel alive and like you can breather again. 
As a mom we do so much and are so busy running around but not for us; it’s always for our little or to do errands for the household. 
The best thing you can do is take some you time for yourself. Nobody is made to where they can emotionally, mentally, and physically carry the weight of not only themselves but others without feeling discouraged and upset from time to time.
You are not a bad mom at all for feeling like this. 
I’ve personally broken down and cried and told my SO; that I don’t want to have this 2nd baby which I’m due with in 2 weeks. Because we have 1 already and from the daily task of caring for my 1st a 1 1/2yr old and taking care of the house, being there to support my SO I too feel like I’m losing myself along the way and didn’t get that youthful experience all my friends got. 
But that’s also a choice I made when I decided to try for and then decided to keep my little one; to give up weekends out. An it took me a minute to realize yes, I gave up some of me to be a mom; but that doesn’t mean I have to give up all of me.
Hang in there❤️ Things will get better

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Oh sweetie, please talk to your doctor or a counselor. You deserve to be happy. You may need to get on an antidepressant.

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You have 4?!? And don't want any of them?! At what point are you going to say that maybe you should just not have sex to prevent another pregnancy that you don't want.. after you brought 4 innocent babies into this world you now say that you don't want them?  Send them to me, someone who has been struggling for 4 years to have a baby and desperately wants one. You made the choice to lay down and have sex so you knew what the outcome would be. Yes it's a "normal feeling" and okay to feel overwhelmed but to openly say you don't want your own kids because you can't accomplish anything is pure selfishness.. that's my opinion. Anyone who disagrees and says that it's normal to not want ANY of your 4 CHILDREN, keep it moving. You need help hun. Get it.

Is it ok to feel this way?

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