When recurrent miscarriages take away the joy of a + pregnancy test

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I had 2 miscarriages, and possibly a 3rd though not confirmed. I’ve gotten to a point Im even afraid to get a positive pregnancy test result because of the possible outcome. 
Anyone else in this situation? I feel so unlucky and helpless. I had a hard life and this is not making it any better you keep asking why me?

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I’ve only had one miscarriage and am currently six weeks pregnant. Thankfully I had no trouble getting pregnant both times but I’m still so nervous. I worry every time I start cramping (even though I know it’s totally normal) and checking for spotting every time I use the bathroom. I’m thrilled to be pregnant again but at the same time don’t want to get my hopes up.

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Ive had 1 miscarriage last October and recently found out i was pregnant again in july im currently 10 weeks and it still has me scared and nervous because i dont ever want to go back threw that again it was the hardest day of my life found out at 8 weeks the heartbeat stopped at 7 1/2 weeks . With this pregnancy ive booked 2 ultrasounds before my actual ultrasound with my ob because i was so nervous but everything seems to be going good with this pregnancy and i got to see the heartbeat this time . My last 1 at my 1st ultrasound there was no heartbeat.  I cried when they told me to look at her little heart just flickering away . I felt relieved and not as nervous as i was when i found out i was pregnant again and i keep praying it all goes well . Best of luck to you.  Mine was caused by a missing chromosome and they call it a fluke . But it still makes you nervous if it could happen again .

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I’ve just had a missed miscarriage - my first one this has been devastating to be honest. I haven’t passed it either yet. Completely blindsided as my HCG was perfectly normal and all my regular symptoms were in swing. Only knew at my 8 week scan when there was no heartbeat. It’s going to be terrifying trying again.

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I have had two and am also still trying and terrified. I know that once I get the positive I will be scared and probably want to detach for a while  I have decided that I will treat this pregnancy just as I have the last two. I will rub my belly all the time, I will talk to my little baby and nickname it and my fiancée will kiss my belly goodnight every night like the last two times. I decided that no matter how scared I am, and even if the new pregnancy doesn’t last either when I get my positive that baby deserves to be loved just as much as I loved my two angel babies. So I will take the pregnancy with an open heart and deal with the heartbreak if it comes to that again. I know at times I will be scared and worried but I won’t let that take my pregnancy experience from me

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I've had 2. Finding out I was pregnant this time was terrifying. Still is. I'm over the moon, don't get me wrong. All I've ever wanted is to be a mother, but I have been having complications from the start and it makes it hard to stay positive. I'm 16 weeks now and so far the baby has been growing strong, but every little pain I get scares me. I have been advised that I have to take it easy, so I've spent the last 3 months barely getting out of bed because I'm scared I'm going to cause a problem with the baby. I want this baby more than anything.

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Just an UPDATE: Im pregnant again!! And this time I am being treated of a recently discovered trombophilia, so hopefully my seed will grow into a healthy baby! Crossing my fingers!

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I had 4 pregnancy losses before having a healthy baby. It was really difficult the whole pregnancy with my daughter because I was sure that it would end in a miscarriage again. I didn't want to get anything until she was born. It is completely normal to feel that way after losses. Once I was further a long and feeling movement on a regular basis it got a lot better.
Fingers crossed for you, I hope you have a rainbow baby soon.

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I have had one tubal and one miscarriage the tubal was last year and the miscarriage was 4 months ago I just found out I am 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant I know I am high risk and I am so afraid to go to the doctors for fear of them telling me somethings wrong with the baby I am being extremely careful.

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I have had four .. I look at a pregnancy test now and all I see is sadness . Can’t even get excited

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Maybe take some time out of trying to heal from your loss

When recurrent miscarriages take away the joy of a + pregnancy test

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