i am so ANNOYED

so my fiancé put my son to bed early so now he’s awake running around the house and my fiancé woke up from his ‘nap’ i was making myself a hot pocket and he comes out saying it smells good so i offer to make him something because i’m nice and i figured it would be thrown in the microwave like mine was. he says what he wants and i go to get it i start it up and i do the dishes he made from earlier that night, i had all the dishes clean and come out to a sink full of dishes because he got hungry before his lil nap. the microwave goes off and he opens it and basically slams the thing shut and then grabs the beef patty complaining about how. i didn’t do it right i’m supposed to leave i t in the packet. he starts swinging t around getting crumbs all over the place. i am literally 9 months pregnant running around after a 2 year old. EVERYDAY. it was his one out of two days off and he did nothing to help me out not a dish, didn’t even pick up garbage he literally picked it up got something from ynder it and out the garbage back down!!! and when i ask him to do something he complains about doing it most of the time. i tell him i’m sorry that i didn’t mean to and i didn’t know t had to be in the packet he says why didn’t you read the instructions (mind you i opened it right in front of him AND asked him how long it needs to be in the microwave) he says to be quiet and he’s gonna throw t out and it’s whatever to leave t alone so i walk away to watch my son and the movie he’s watching. and like two minutes later i hear him yelling at himself that he isn’t gonna eat mush “it’s fucking mush i’m not eating mush” so i just shake my head and enjoy my hot pocket telling myself i need to eat and i should enjoy it. then he comes in and starts waving t around in my face once again getting crumbs all over my bedroom saying it’s inedible i say km sorry and i didn’t know and if i would’ve known i would’ve done it. he says i should’ve read the back. i said he could’ve told me he says that because i’m stupid and incompetent he shouldn’t have to tell me everything like i’m a child. in like well you could’ve made t yourself. ??????? i’m just annoyed and i really am not ready for ehid baby to come i’m gonna have no help. he says he doesn’t need to bc i stay home and he works. e pays the bills so i don’t need the help.