Give me your Three some experience:

Sooo prior to this conversation in the screenshots my bf had asked but we never fully discussed but this time I think he’s a bit more serious, I know he wouldn’t

Push me to do it if I wasn’t comfortable but I am curious about it tbh.

I’d like, if y’all are comfortable giving me advice on how to go about finding someone for a threesome, what sort of boundaries I should keep in mind & what sort of things I should expect doing something more intimate with a third person in outside the relationship. And what you guys did overall? Like how it started and I guess ended? All I’ve seen are threesomes on pornhub but idk if that’s accurate 😪😂

If I’m being honest the only thing that is sort of holding me back is just my insecurities like my body not being as nice as the girl we choose (if we choose to ask a girl) I know my BF loves my body but still you know.

I’d also like to know what your experiences have been like being asked by a couple, and what your experience was like good or bad. What it was like being a part of it, like did you feel left out at all or? Thanks guys!

UPDATE:

wow- thank you allll so much for your feedback! The good and the bad has helped me soooo much. I’ve taken into consideration every single one of your comments, and first I’d like to say, I am so sorry to those of you that had a bad experience. I never wish the anxiety and pain that you all described after the three some on anyone. I’m sorry for those couples that broke up or are currently working on fixing the relationship. Time heals, and I know everything will turn out great for you all! I wish you guys the best.

Now- I’ve spoken to my boyfriend countless times over the last few days, I mentioned what I’ve heard from you guys, what my own personal issues or concerns were and he has been very understanding.

Many of you girls have gone to say you could never do it because you could never let another woman touch your man, that is definitely me on some level haha. But lucky for me my boyfriend said we do it with a guy, or whoever I am comfortable with. I should also mention I myself have a fluid sexuality. I have dated women before and guys as well.

So I wouldn’t mind being with another girl as long she is bi or well not grossed out by touching another girl as I know some straight girls can be.

I still have many questions I do feel better about doing so because I am a very kinky person and I’m always open to trying something knew, and prior to this relationship I did fantasize about a scenario like this, with all girls or all guys or boy and a girl. But once feelings are involved I do realize it’s very different and difficult to consider.

Like many of you have said just communicate and that’s what we will be doing. I told him we should take our time to talk for a few months and then if we both feel really comfortable and have come up with our rules and boundaries we can look for a third or even a couple.

Again thank you all so much!!! And I’ll try to keep you guys updated!!