Wedding in 31 days!

I’m getting married in 31 days and everyone making me feel bad. I’m a bit old fashion I believe in the whole wedding and dress. By the time it’s said and done it’ll cost guessing $6,000 if that. But everyone keeps saying go cheaper or go to the courthouse. My mom wanting me to use stuff for the last time I was engaged to my abusive ex. My sister every time shopping it’s why can’t this be this color so it work for my wedding and something bout hers.(she getting married in 3 years)

I’m just soo overwhelmed and tired of people bring me down for wanting a nice old fashion wedding 😭😞