Every time we have sex, I never get to finish

Even if he does down on me first or whatever.. he gets bored after like a minute and just starts fucking me and then he finishes, cleans himself off and then says he’s too tired to go again and then he goes to bed

Well tonight he wanted to tie me up and I was all for it cuz I was like.. sweet it’s gonna be about me for once... well he used my vibrator on me while I was tied up but even when I told him where to move it... like “go a little up” or “a little to the left” he still wasn’t moving it so I would shimmy my hips a bit so that I could get it in the right spot for myself but he would take that as me getting wiggly from it feeling good so he would take it away to “tease” me and then ask if I was getting close to orgasming and I would say no and he would just say “oh” and then put it back on me (but not on my clit)

It got to the point where I had to ask if he could finger me while he was using the vibrator on me just so I could get SOMETHING out of it... but then he was complaining that it’s hard holding the vibrator in place and fingering me at the same time.... as if he was even holding it in the right place to begin with 🙄

He got bored and put the vibrator down and started fucking me so I asked if he could untie one of my hands so I could use the vibrator while he fucked me and he untied my hand and started fucking me and literally in the time it took me to turn the vibratory on and put it on my clit (not even comfortably, yet) he came inside me

Then what does he do?? Gets up, cleans himself off, says he’s too tired to go again, and goes to bed

Like I can’t fucking win 😭😭

I’ve talked to him soooo many times about how I never get to finish and he always just says stuff like “well you would if you didn’t take so long” like sorry I can’t cum in 0.005 seconds like you 😭😭😭😭

Edit: I forgot to mention.. at one point I asked him to finger me and use the vibrator on me at the same time or to fuck me and use the vibrator at the same time and he asked me why (but in a cold tone) and I said “because then I’ll finish faster” and so what does he do!? Pretty much ignore what I said and only do what at a time...... but then of course tell me (like I said before) that I take too long to finish