Into choking or being pinned down?

So there’s been 3 times I’ve had a guy put his hand on my throat. First time was during sex, I was on top and he heals it a bit tight but not like cut off air (I already loose my breathe fast and don’t always breathe during sex... sometimes he has to actually remind me to breathe) and I enjoyed his hand on my throat but it wasn’t there long. The second time a guy I have sexual tension with (we admitted we both have tension) we were talking in a parked car and he reached over and just had his hand on my throat and I was like “omg yes” internally and it was for a very short time and in reference to something he was saying (lost track of what he said because of his actions). Third time was with the first guy who did it. It was as foreplay. He came at me sitting on his bed to pin me down just holding me by my throat to tease me about kissing...

The guy that’s fine it to me twice and I were talking about how there’s sides to me in bed I haven’t fully realized I enjoy cause I haven’t done them yet. It got me thinking of those encounters. Am I into choking, the hand placement, the dominance it shows from a guy, or just being pinned down?

How do I find out?

I don’t think I would like the “make me not breathe” side of all this cause I do that enough on my own without realizing It when sex is good...