My baby doesn't want me 😢😢

My 2 year old prefers my husband over me ever since I got pregnant with second baby. Whenever she's upset and I try to calm her she gets aggressive with me and tries to pinch me or cry even louder until he holds her. She only falls asleep with him while holding him and wakes up in middle of the night to make sure he's still there (she sleeps in the same bed with us). I feel like she is slowly growing apart from me and even rejecting me. I just weaned her a few months ago. I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. I'm not able to lift her up and hold or carry her since my midwife advised me not to.. I miss the time she was small and always wanted me.

She prefers my grandmother and my father's wife over me as well.. it's like I'm the least person she wants to be around 😢😢 am I losing her? What should I do to make her want to bond with me again?