Birthday Miscarriage

I ended up in the ER on my birthday with the beginning of my miscarriage. I was 7 weeks but measuring at 5 (I think?)

My mother in law was found dead in her home (in another state) just 2 days before. It was a very shocking moment and I cried and cried. My husband begged me to take it easy for the baby but with the hormones, I couldn’t help it. My husband lost his mother and our first pregnancy in the same week. I know they say stress doesn’t contribute but I can’t help but think 💭

The hardest part is going through this without my husband. He’s laying his mother to rest and has no choice but to be where he is.

Feeling better today after going out of the house and hanging with my sister.

We can’t wait to try again but I am PETRIFIED of even the thought of going through this again. I need to know why this happened. It’s eating away at me. I have my appointment with the OB on Wednesday 10/30/19. What can I expect from that appointment since I’m sure I will still be bleeding at that point.

Also, I have no pain. Just heavy bleeding. Just like my period and that’s it. My HCG level is 3377 and my progest is 7.1 would I know if I had an ectopic?