Help (Bf)
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. Everything was incredible, he always told me how much he loved me, gave me so much of his time, and was just really a dream boyfriend. Then we arrived in mid-September and October. The last time we have had any large about of time together was the beginning of September. We spent a few hours together and it was amazing but that was the last time. He’s always busy and rather spends time with his friends than me. One day I tried to make plans with him and he said he was busy but when that day came and he was leaving he went a different way than normal and I asked where he was going and he said to hang out with friends. I was so shocked and it kinda felt like a slap in the face.
Now he never tells me he loves me, I'm always the one saying it, he never texts me back even when it's something really important. He still says ”I love you” back to me when I say it, still buys be things that are way too expensive that I don't ask for. He still does somethings but it's not the same. It hurts so much to see someone I love so much become distant even when I try to talk to them and reach out. I was told by a friend to he patient but I'm reaching my breaking point. I want to tell him all of this but I don't want to add this to his plate and become an added weight.
He's always been a really straight forward person. He brutally honest and always says things even if it's not what I want to hear and with him not saying anything about the situation make some think he's not doing it on purpose and I'm being sensitive.
I did the same thing last year when I was so busy and he would try to make plans with me but I would be to busy and he was understanding of that. But I still put in some effort even if it was only an ”I love you” over text.
I just don't know what to do. Am I just delaying the inevitable that being us splitting up or is he really just busy and doesn't realize what he's doing to me? Please help!
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