Please read.. could use kind words.
I figure I would wright this post because I have nobody else to tell.. here goes nothing
Today, I had complete cut my sister off. I will no longer be talking to her. Some of you may wonder why or say I am making a big choice. However, let me tell you what happened. D= sister bf. As we was about to start work, my mom, dad, sister, and i. D called my sister at 6:30 saying he flipped the car, hit a tree, and tires came off. We quickly rushed over. (D owns the car and my sister is the 2nd owner. However, he was one who bought it. D is horrible driver, rides ppl ass, goes 20 miles over the speed limit. Also has never made a payment on them car. Only my sister. She asked him lots time to get car looked out. To see if was okay to drive) D h ad my sister kids (3 kids, my twin niece and nephew, then my baby nephew). All the way there my sister kept saying she going kill him. She hates him. If any of the kids are hurt, and blah blah. The tension in the car where high. We had no clue where they were. He sucked at detail, he called my sister a bitch on the phone cause she was upset. We got there, the argument had started... my sister went across the street to go and get her kid. The car legit went on the other side of the road, hit a tree, tired off, front airbags out, and was just horrible. D had started argue with my sister, my mom decide step in and break it off, D then threaten to hit my mom and my mom said go ahead (because the fire ppl would see it. The police didn’t show up Until three hours later). My sister decide not protect my mom. And protects D. After awhile my sister stays over and takes pic of the car, they start arguing again. I had go o the other side of rode and try get my sister. Then D decide call me bad names saying I am bad kid and my parents don’t know how raise me. My dad gets pissed goes over there fight him. Me being the person. I go quickly get in between And D push’s me leaving a bruise. My sister quickly jumps in and protects D once again. Calls me bitch, a bad sister, and other stuff. Then the firefighters ppl come out and break up tell us stay on one side because it’s our fault. Even tho D was one saying shit and calling us names. My sister still being mad And I say something to my parents, she goes off on me again. Saying what makes you think he won’t hit you. Idc if he did and stuff. After awhile of waiting, my brother comes to college the kids Cause we didn’t have enough room in my car. We all try leave cause D doesn’t have Insurance on the car, my sister does tho in her name. Instead all leaving cause my sister wasn’t in the accident and doesn’t need to stay. Will she does still and still protect D may wonder why idc if she protects D. He is very aggressive towards my sister and always calls her a bad mom. Even tho she isn’t, D and he have a kid. He never pays for anything. My sis always trying find ways to pay for rent, car bill, and everything. Tomorrow she will be back In his arms. After we all leave the car accident finial. My sister goes back our house. Somebody was here we are unsure, we was trying finish work for the night. She was seating in the car will kids was inside, up until 10:30 will my sister was outside talking somebody. Instead being inside the house with her kids. We believe was D. As soon as we got home my dad said “ D is not welcomed her anymore if so. He will be arrested. He is not allowed be on the property at all. After what he said about me” She doesn’t know it yet, but we do plan on putting a resisting order on him. After what he pulled today. My sister then proceed to say”will I guess ill have stay somewhere else or go back home since i have his child here.”
My point of all this is my sister is choosing D over family. Tomorrow she will be back with him and act like never happened. She will continue to struggle as he continues to use his money on weed and stupid stuff. I can not take this unhealthy relationship with my sister anymore. I have always tried help her and be there for her, but I can no longer. As she has Finial showed me what she has rather have. I have wished this happened sooner when we have 2 kinda similar accident like this breakout over D.
Please if you have any question by missing details will be happy to answer. Please don’t assume its a lot take In right now and I might’ve missed stuff. 
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