I’m needing advice

Please bare with me because it’s going to be a little long.

If you found that your husband/ boyfriend/ significant other had a account for the cam girls stuff how would you feel and how would you bring it up to them that you want him to get rid of it? Do any of you consider that cheating/ borderline cheating? 

I’ve always known that my husband has watched some type of porn (I just always thought it was like porn hub type of stuff) but it didn’t bother me until I actually looked into it. When I did look into it, it’s the cam girl website you where you can talk to the girls I was able to see what’s being said with the few conversations that there has been (nothing long or to the same person more then once) just how nice certain body parts looked and now I just feel sick to my stomach about it all. Other things were said as well involving his body but I’ll spare you ladies the details.

I don’t even know how to bring it up. I just feel sick to my stomach.

I know that when I do talk to him and tell him how I feel he’ll stop I’m just kinda angry and hurt right now and could use some honest advice on how to approach the subject. Especially because I know he’s going to feel like I invaded his privacy. But I was honestly trying to get to a different website and accidentally clicked on it and then was looking at things to see if it would spice up our sex life. And then just stumbled on the conversations.

And I already know that it’s my own fault for somewhat knowing about it but not saying anything so please don’t tell me that part. I just want some advice from people who have been through something similar.

I just don’t know how to feel, I’m 33 weeks pregnant with our second son. I had previa this pregnancy so I’ve been on pelvic restrictions (just found out that it’s resolved) so it’s not like we have been able to do anything which is making self conscious about my self as well.

I’m just feeling a bunch of emotions and can’t even sleep right now and have to be up for work in less then 2 hrs. Sorry if this is all over the place, but my head is all over the place.