Seriously? Do you even care????

I am in my normal TWW, for the 96th time(I’ll let you do the math). Symptom spotting at its core of course. “I’m bleeding I don’t start for another week.” “Is it IB?” And “what was that I feel, a cramp is it AF or is it pregnancy?” And “well I’m not sure but I’m gonna ask 1,000s of strangers and see what they think.”

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Why?

We all are here well most of us, for trying to become moms, and even dads for some! Maybe for the 1st time like myself, or maybe for the 6th. But why do we come here to ask almost impossible questions?

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Because we are here for 1 thing, we ask questions for ONE REASON.

HOPE!

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Some of you women, comment on our post like we are stupid because “you should know”

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But the truth is we probably do know, we know the answer is “got to wait until AF is here to know for sure.”

Or my favorite

“Ummmh take a test, why are you asking if you are 15 days late?”

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We come here to be brought up by or peers the ones who are going through the same things with us. Not to be told we are stupid for even asking.

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But we are here for support. We want the truth, definitely if we don’t know it. But I also know I’ll have to wait to find out.

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Just don’t forget when you are writing those snooty comments that we are in the same boat as you, and all we are ALL looking for is a glimmer of hope each cycle. Or in my case the last 96 cycles.

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I pray everyone finds their hope, and I hope we can build each other up with hope! Just thought I would share for those who “don’t know”