Silent boyfriend yet concerned

Me n my new boyfriend have been seubg each other for 5 months now

He is very silent charactored

On bed im the one who pulls him for sex

Now his charactor is so boring

But when i try to ignore him and answer him the way he is on me one wird answer he complains of my changes torwards hom

Yet he is the one with that particular silent charactor. When he ask i tell him im reducing myself a bit im feeling too much active on you and he gets angry when i say that

Must i continue too active the way iam with him or must i engage to be silent on him the way he is

Im worried i dont want to loose him