Should I bee taking it this easy!!

Sooo I just got out of a horrible relationship that lasted wayyy longer then it should 6yrs of hell. Finally broke it if I tried to be cordial with him during his situation, he had to do a year in prison. That didn’t work out so well so I said fuck it and stop all forms of communication!! Blocked his whole damn family besides one of his daughter’s. I adore that little girl to the fullest and her mom isn’t that bad. We are setting a trip up to met this summer. Any ways I’m really surprised how I’m handling this I’m not in a emotional state like I was in the past when I thought we were over!! My sister thinks I shouldn’t date or find a relationship!! I’m not really looking for one, I know that I need professional help from what I’ve gone through but I’m enjoying hang out and going on dates with guys. Ive really enjoyed their company and seeing that there are true gentleman out there!! I don’t why my family and his family expect me just to be a mess. And get back with him. I’m over that little boy shit. I feel stronger then I have ever been. Some days I think about him and feel like I miss him but I think of all the mental and physical abuse that I went there!! And continue on with my new free life!!! Just needed to vent