Virginity?

So my boyfriend and I recently had a make out session on thrusday. Everything accelerated real fast to the point where he started fingering me. Afterwards I went to my girlfriends house and when I went to the bathroom there was blood on the napkin. They said it was probably my cherry was popped mind you we didn’t have SEX. Today when I used the bathroom there was a lot of blood on my panties but I don’t have no cramps, back pain nothing. I’m so confused!!!!!!