Broken clit??

So I bought a Hitachi wand about a year ago, me and my boyfriend use it every single time we have sex. We recently stopped because I can no longer have orgasms without it and I need to learn how to and he needs to learn on how to make me orgasm without the toy. But I feel like I have less simulation and it’s so hard for me to orgasm! Is there an easier way to get stimulated better without toys ??