Probably a dumb questions 😕

So my husband and I decided to go ahead with surrogacy , not right now but hopefully soon!

We’re obviously going to do IVF with our own eggs and sperm.

My questions is.. the process of getting sperm is the same as donation? The men are in a room with magazines and movies?

My husband doesn’t watch porn and was wondering if there’s a way he can phone in with him (He has lots of dirty pictures and videos of me on it)