Meeting his family but no relationship???

Kinda long but please bare with me, idk what to do!! So, I’ve known this guy for a couple years but we only started seeing each other/talking almost two weeks ago. Since then I’ve spent every minute of my free time with him, he bowls in tournaments and he likes me to come to them all which I am happy to do. I love being asked to come along. When we reconnected I told him I wanted to take it sorta slow because I just got out of a relationship not too long ago. He agreed, yet did things that show the opposite, tells me we should move in together, we’re taking a trip together in December, that he wants to get me pregnant, and meet his mom and all his family.

It all seemed soon, but we both agreed we felt feelings for each other fast and haven’t felt like this before. He would frequently introduce me as his girl to his friends or teammates, but on the phone one night he told me we were “talking”.. On Saturday I was sitting with his bowling teammates, a married couple and they were asking me things, they asked if i was his girlfriend... i said honestly, I’m not sure. And left it at that. I told him later, and when I told him my response, he said “what? Why would you say that” “since you haven’t been claiming me these past couple days, I get to not claim you for a few days hahah” So I was like Oh! So we are together!? He’s like duhhh. So I’m like okay cool! I’m happy with that.

Two days later, were at his tournament and he jokes around saying stop texting your hoes and stuff, and I said you’re the one with hoes... and he went on about how he hasn’t vibed with anyone like he does with me, and how he doesn’t want hoes he only talks to me etc And how he has a lot going on and how having me around makes him happy and at ease, And then says but as far as a relationship goes I’m not rushing it because then it’ll get fucked up. I didn’t say anything, i was shocked. I was your gf then 48 hours later I’m not? Wtf. Then this was last night.

I totallyyyyy understand that it’s only been a week so why rush Into a relationship, shit it was my idea to take it slow, but why say it then take it back? Like I said what’s the difference between acting like we’re in a relationship like we do now and putting the title on it? Why am I meeting your whole family yet I’m not your girlfriend? Why do you wanna spend every day and every minute with but NOT BE in a relationship with me?? I don’t wanna end up catching even more feeling than I already have for it to just never happen. Ladies I am CON-FUSED. Help