Mothers out there please help me out!?

Question

I have an 11 yr old daughter i juat found out she masturbates her self. She toll me her friwnds in 5th grade out her mind to this and what to do. Now she is a 6 grader. She cry to me telling it hurts her and she doesnt get a pleasure out of it. Am hurt and confused. What should i do? Can i trust her word she will stop?

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Masturbation is normal and healthy. She is exploring her body, what feels good, etc. There is nothing wrong with it, and don’t make her feel ashamed for this, or tell her to stop or make her feel abnormal for touching herself. I’m confused on the part where you said she said something about it hurting though I’m not sure what you mean your post was kinda all over the place

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Why does she need to stop? Why are you making her feel like her body is wrong? Please educate yourself on this. Talk to her pediatrician, a lot of kids do this.

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1. Get a dictionary 
2. Leave your daughter alone and let her explore her body

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Masturbation is normal. Why are you hurt? I hope you didn’t shame her or get upset in any way. Exploring your body is normal and healthy, please make sure she knows that. Please do not ruin her psyche by making masturbation wrong, harmful, sinful, something to cry about or be disgusted by.

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The amount of typos in this is insane. I almost feel like you're just a troll. If you're not, don't shame her she's not doing anything wrong. As long as she's not seeking sexual pleasure from boys then she's fine.

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Masturbation is normal and healthy. If she's upset because she's hurting herself when she does it then yes, that's something to worry about and you need to discuss it. But touching herself isn't something in and of itself to shame her for if it's something she wants to do and not something her friends are telling her to. It's pretty common for kids that age to start exploring their bodies.

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Why does she need to stop? She'll stop if she wants to but if she doesn't want to leave it alone. It's her body and she's exploring it. Just inform her not to stick foreign objects inside of her and she'll be fine.

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Hope you take all this advice. Talk to a doctor if it’ll make you feel better. Masturbation is indeed natural and healthy. It would cause more harm to make her feel ashamed or like she’s doing something wrong when she absolutely is not.

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Completely normal for her age!

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This is nothing to shame her for, just tell her she needs to take a little break if it hurts and doesnt feel pleasure. Like a little abstinence from masturbating. Its completely normal. Better than having her out having actual intercourse at 11 yrs old.

Mothers out there please help me out!?

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