Long distance relationship

Hi ladies,

To sum up , I’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year and a couple of months now . I thought it was time to ask my partner what he plans for the next 5 years , what are his goals as an individual and what’s the plan for our relationship .

His answer was pretty ... “ interesting” . He never really answered it , saying the question isn’t very specific. So I asked , “who is moving where and when” . He’s always been down to move ; he always talked about him wanting to move, etc . Now , the man said , he doesn’t know “when” and he doesn’t want to put a time frame on it .

ps : I don’t mind moving there , but we’ve been talking about him moving since the beginning of our relationship . Either way I’m okay with it . But his answer was just too ....... I don’t know.

I was confused . Someone tell me if I’m tripping , but basically he’s telling me , we might stay in a long distance relationship for the next 10 years , he doesn’t know and doesn’t want to think about it ? And I should just wait like a puppy until he sorts things out ?

I just wanted him to suggest different alternatives ( on my side I thought about different alternatives , but I wanted to know what he had in mind first; after his answer I didn’t feel like it was worth it anymore . And have been thinking about breaking up ... what’s the point of it ...if he doesn’t even know where this is leading , if he doesn’t even know where he wants to be . It sounds like wasting each other’s time. It would be wiser to end things now , instead of waiting 10 years and realised how I wasted time by holding onto something that wasn’t worth it at all . I don’t know if I’m overreacting ... )

Sorry for the long post .

Please tell me , am I tripping or not ?