No thanksgiving dinner

This is the first real thanksgiving my husband and I are spending together. He’s in the army, and recently, he did a PT test and he was a couple pounds overweight. It sucks because he’s not extremely overweight either. They didn’t chapter him out for this, he’s getting an opportunity to show that he can lose some weight. But I’m bummed because I had planned this huge feast for us. Turkey, ham, mashed potatoes, Mac and cheese, veggies, bread rolls and pies. Pretty much a little of everything but I know he won’t be able to eat that. I’m thinking he can have veggies and turkey. Of course I’m going to support him no matter what. And I told him I understand. But I love cooking and making things out of scratch— so for me, I tend to bond with people when I know I put work into creating some yummy food. I feel bad cause he told me I should still make everything and I should eat whatever I’d like but I would feel terrible doing that in front of him. I know it’s not the end of the world. Just a little sad that our first thanksgiving will be a little limited. Regardless, I’m just thankful to have him and good health!