How do I get over this? It’s really not important


I got married on July 27th. I didn’t get a bachelorette party. I had one planned but it wasn’t what I wanted at all. I ended up getting in a fight with my mother in law who was hosting it that morning and I called it off. Either way I think I would have regretted it. But now, months later, it’s still bothering me a lot. I wish I could go back and do that over and plan what I wanted. I feel like I missed out on something important.