Is this weird?

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Is it weird to tell this new guy I’m ab to have sex with that i don’t want him to eat me out... because it makes me really uncomfortable and bc we’d be new sex partners. I want to have sex with him really bad but i just don’t want him to do that bc it makes me nervous😭😭 self conscious** i want to know it’s okay to let my guard down around him before i let him idk if that’s weird

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Just redirect his attention to another part of your body.

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No that’s not weird at all. Just make sure you’re both tested prior to any sexual activity

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I mean, if he tries all you have to say is "no thank you" or "I'd rather not do that" or something like that. 😊

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No issue its ur preference just let him know

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i don't think it is weird to have a convo about boundaries beforehand. who knows maybe there are things he isn't into/wouldn't want and he will be glad u brought it up. i always clarify my hard limits before and i have never had a guy think it is weird.

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I wouldn't mention it unless he has mentioned wanting to do it our in the moment he's goes down. Personally I think it would be presumptuous to being it up. Also totally normal a lot of women feel this way.

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Has he mentioned eating you out before? You don't have to have something done to you your not comfortable with.

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