Naps... or lack of

My baby will NOT nap during the day. I’ve read that it takes them 20 min to fall into a deep sleep. So I’ll change her, feed her, time how long she’s been sleeping. Try to put her down, tried the swing, bassinet, pack and play. The longest she’ll stay sleeping in when I put her in my wrap and wear her around the house. Oh, I’ve tried swaddling her and not.. I play her music on her mobile, tried white noise... When I put her down she instantly screams, not just a little fuss, but screams!!! Real tears and everything. I give her the binky and rub her belly, tried to not touch her just talk or shush..

I’m at a dead end with naps.

I will say that I’m lucky at night bc she’s so tired that she’ll sleep for 5 hours at a time, usually.. knock on wood lol. But I need a little break during the day to do something for myself and do house stuff.

Also, what’s ur opinions, can u spoil a baby this young (mine is 4 weeks and 4 days) by holding them too much?