Don’t want to start a fight with my SO

I know we have all recently posted about this. Ladies I am 100% exhausted to the point it’s making me so angry and hateful lately. My baby doesn’t go to sleep till about 10pm no matter what I do or what routines I try. But she is always asleep by 10 and I’m passed out soon after. I’ve realized what my baby doesn’t sleep a solid stretch and is up every 1-2 hours during the night. If she does get a longer stretch it’s because my SO was still awake! As soon as he goes to sleep his snoring is so loud it wakes her up then I have to get up feed her and get her back to sleep. I want myself and my poor baby to get some sleep because when she’s overly tired it’s me who she wants as she’s so fussy and I’m so overly tired I feel her pain! I don’t know how to be able to get sleep because when we discussed moving her to her room at 1 I said I’d probably sleep on the air mattress in her room for a few days and he said “like hell you will” meaning I’m supposed to always sleep in our room next to him so that won’t be an option for us to sleep. Idk what to do but his snoring is so bad I’m always kicking him but he can fall back to sleep and snore so loud in a matter of seconds! Y’all I’m tired!