She doesn't change her panties *UPDATE*

Y'all...I dunno what to do about this one. My fiancee doesn't change her panties...she's been wearing the same pair for over a week. And I know they have not been washed. She will shower and put the same dirty pair back on. I don't really know how to address this. Amazon has these panty grab bags for like $24. I bought one and poured it on the bed for us to divvy up. I thought it would be a cute/fun hint. Didn't work. So today I reminded her that I bought them. And jokingly said "ya know that pair wont feel betrayed if you decide to change them" and kind of laughed

I really didnt know what to say. She got all embaressed and upset that I called her out. But like...come on

Help

*she showers and leaves for work before I even get up in the morning due to how early she works. But next time she showers while I'm home I'll have to sneak in...

I WISH it was because she was selling her panties. 1)if she was, she would tell me because I'd be supportive of it 2) We have a joint bank account so I would see the money rolling in. 3) These panties don't go missing when she finally does decide to change them. So they couldn't possibly be sold

*oh also to be clear!! It's not just this one particular pair of panties she likes to wear or anything. It's not like she's obsessed with this pair. The next time she finally does change them, she will wear those for a week or two as well. She does this with every pair. There is nothing special about the pair she is currently wearing. And we can't do laundry everyday. Our apartment doesn't have a washer and dryer and does not have hookups.

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So thank you to everyone that commented. We've had a lot of changes in our home lately and she's been working a new job that takes her out of town. She's been exhausted with the early days and long hours, but maybe how tired she's been is actually a sign that she's been in a funk..no pun intended. She also did grow up poor, that's really not an angle I had even thought of so thank you for those that offered up that insight. She comes home from a business trip tonight and, with a little help from my good ol pal wine, I'm going to try and have a talk with her as gently as I can. Weirdly anxious to see if she has changed them while away...

But again, thank you to everyone that offered a point of view I hadn't considered

***Update****

She came home from her trip and I noticed that she had changed her panties (YAY!). Because of this, I couldn't figure out how to bring up the topic organically. I brought it up the night before she went our of town and when she comes back three days later they're changed, maybe that's a sign that me mentioning it actually registered with her. She's been back for two days and has yet to change them, but I'm just going to wait another day and see what's what.

**She changed them! And I watched her pack three pairs with her before going out of town this morning. I think me saying something before she left clicked.

****she came home in new panties, and has changed them the last two days.

To the woman who said I was gross for not being direct. You don't know my wife. I want to be direct. I try to be direct about things. And then she cries. Its frustrating. I have to treat certain things with kid gloves. She grew up in an abusive home with a mother who always made her feel like a pos. Who made fun of her for things. Who made her feel small. Is it difficult for me to have to figure out how to hane things delicately? Does it take extra long? Is it not always effective. Yea. Its hard and can feel really annoying and silly. Especially being the blunt person that I am. I wish by now this is something she has taken the steps to work past. But she hasn't. At the end of the day, I would rather take the round about way that that doesn't hurt and embarrass her. If that makes me gross, oh fucking well.

Also, thanks for the compliments on me being a good husband. But I'm actually her wife. I appreciate the sentiment though