So my husband and I have a 22 month old daughter...and we always wanted our kids to be 2-3 years apart.. So I’m ready to have another one but my husband wants to wait until we have a house but it looks like it won’t be until the summer/fall.. right now we live upstairs at my parents and it has a lot of space and we have been saving ... my daughter is loved by so many people right now and is being taking care of while we both have to go to work... he wants to be more independent by buying a house and trust me I do too and I’ve been stressing about it but honestly I’m done stressing about getting a house ASAP. We will get a house one day and where we are now has a lot of space ... we actually have another bedroom if we had another kid.

So my thing is why buy a house then try to have a kid which will be stressful when we can have another kid and then take our time and find out dream house .. houses where I live are EXPENSIVE.

Well a week and a half ago he said he THINKS he pulled out on time but isn’t sure. I hope he didn’t 😩

I need y’all opinions without being rude.