Stuck ( long post )

I’ve been with this guys for about a year now, we met because of my brother-inlaw. Sunday was our one year we did not spend it together and i was honestly fine with that, we don’t live together due to him wanting to get a bigger how because we both have kids from previous relationships so that’s honestly understandable. Moving forward from February to like mid june I had stayed with him for a couple months with all the kids and everything and everything was fine, I started staying back at my house due to not being enough room in his for everyone.

We are now expecting a child together and I’m honestly confused half the time I can’t tell if we are together or if we aren’t together, we was going and doing things with each other now we don’t and we hardly speak or see each other. When I’ve set him down to talk about these things he says we are together and everything is fine, I wanna move forward and make a happy home for my kids but I don’t know if he is on that page anymore.

I’m honestly lost and I’m not sure what to do anymore with him I love the man to death and he knows this and I know he loves me to there is just alot of complications right now, I feel as if I’m stuck in a position and im not sure what to do anymore.

Any advice on what to do?