He left for work without a kiss or goodbye

My husband and I got into a fight a few hours before he had to go to work. The fight was over a female coworker of his that I have expressed my dislike for (she texts him at inappropriate times and asks personal questions) and how he had unblocked her number and messaged her, supposedly about work things. He freaked out, locked himself in our room for 3 hours and left for work only kissing our kids. He just looked at me, walked right past and when I said I love you he slammed the car door and drove off. I am so done with his immaturity. He’s the one who broke my trust with her yet I’m the bad guy for being upset over them texting? You’ve gotta be kidding me. I don’t plan on texting him or even talking to him until he comes to me with an apology. We’ve always told each other we would always say I love you and kiss before either one leaves without the other incase something terrible happens, I guess he doesn’t agree with that anymore.