Trauma

I normally take full care of my baby . So like normal I put my baby to bed . This is only his 4th night in his crib since he’s too big for his bassinet . So 50% of the time he’s been staying asleep when I put him down and the other he will only stay asleep for a few mins and then wake up. Well that was the case tonight . Well I am trying to not go running the second he starts fussing so he can learn to put him self back to sleep. Well my bf throws the covers off stomps over to the cribs puts his bink and tells him he needs to go to sleep . So he slightly drifts off them a few mins later same thing happens . Big again stomps over even harder this time . Holds the bink in his mouth for a little then gets mad and gets him out and brings him in bed and makes him lay down forcing the bink in and patting him so hard . My baby is screaming , I try to take him my BF won’t let me . I storm out . He stops then baby starts screaming more then bf blows on baby and pats hard again my dog leaves the room running looking for me cuz he knows the baby doesn’t cry like that . I go back to room try to take baby 2 more times . Won’t let so I stand there for few mins . Then leave . Baby starts screaming again bf gets mad puts baby back in crib and baby keeps screaming . I went in got dog, baby, blanket , and left .

This is our first baby . My bf is 1 of 6 kids and is the 2nd oldest . Has helped and raised some of the younger kids and never acted like this . I really never imagined him to be like this to his own child. It’s so painful to see and hear this . As soon as I got my baby and calmed him I just kept apologizing to him. I just don’t understand how some people don’t live and breath for there children.

UPDATE: I agree with a toddler yes you have to use a little more force because they know when it’s bedtime and try to avoid it like the plague but our baby is about to be 4 months