How to feel connected with baby in early pregnancy

My doctors keep asking me “do I feel connected to my baby” and idk what to say of course I love it already but I feel like it will be hard to connect until I’m further along and can feel movement an stuff..how can I make myself feel more connected to my baby?im 11 weeks and the first trimester has gone by so so slow because it’s given me a lot of anxiety because I tried for so long it just seems almost to good to be true.i tried for four years.i frame and hang up every ultrasound I get I rub my belly and I just don’t know if I’m feeling what my doctors are talking about when they ask “if I’m connected to my baby”