Boyfriend doesn’t give compliments

Boyfriend of 2 years never gives my compliments or flirt with me. We rarely have sex like once a month. Which is ok I would never pressure him it’s his body and I’m not trying to shame him, but it just feels like he just isn’t into me.

He claims it’s just not who he is.

When I bring it up he says “I sound stupid”

I’m so fed up with this conversation with him and it never goes far.

He “texts” other women “hey gorgeous” but when I am him why he doesn’t say it to me he says because he is just bullshitting with them and it means nothing.

Of course I do not believe him.

He says I’m to sensitive.

It all sounds like mental abuse. And I know.

I feel trapped, I feel horrible, I feel so insecure!