Feeling like a single mom

I love my boyfriend to death but I feel like I’m drowning in exhaustion to the point where I feel frustrated and I hate feeling this way. I’m a nanny so I’m able to be with my son all day everyday. We split all the bills and I also have to come home and cook and make sure the house is tidy. My boyfriend is a welder so I do know he has it harder than me when it comes to work life but being a mom is a full time job as well. I’m up all night with the baby because he’s EBF so he can’t even help me. When I come home I try to give my boyfriend the baby so they can bond and he usually will interact a few minutes then get on his phone/play video games so I end up taking my baby back anyways. I don’t even know why I’m typing all this I just feel so frustrated and I hate it. Please tell me someone else can relate