Hospital but not an accident !
In order for you to decide here is a little back story!
My fiancé works in the oil field and has been in many accidents! A few major but he always came out on top except for one that required surgery! We’re talking couple roll over car accidents ( a man died in one), stuff blowing up in his face, and the one that required surgery was a freak accident with only him involved! He was pushing a board and his elbow popped out the wrong way then back in and it tore his bicep tendon! He went to the er where they were located and they said he just dislocated it and that it was back in. He went back to work finished out the day and was unable to move his arm so went to our family doctor and low and behold it was torn and needed surgery! Waiting on work comp caused more damage as surgery for injury is supposed to be with in days to one week! We waited a couple MONTHS! Any ways those are just some crazy examples of his work.
So we have the Life360 tracking app on all our phones (me, him, my parents and grandma) it is there in case of emergency! My fiancé is always on the road for work and I love being able to know where he’s at and i know just the right time to put dinner in the oven lol it notified me about his last roll over (we didn’t have it for the last events) I was forever grateful as it gives directions to him! I too travel for work. My grandma is a bus driver and my parents take care of our kids.
*side note: me and my fiancé trust each other so we don’t have the app for a matter of trust issues**
Now to the problem I have! Communication still really sucks with him (7years together) normally it’s something silly and little BUT yesterday wasn’t! I am home by noon every day and by the time I get the kids and take my mom to work I walk in the house at 1. My fiancé said he was going to be home early since we had gotten snow and his location had gottenn way more than we did so he just went to the shop! He said he’d be home by noon. So I had did a little bit of shopping when I took my mom to work. As we were leaving I figured he would be home already I tried calling to let him know we were down the street so he could help me with the kids and grocery’s. No answer. No biggy he’s bad about his phone or he ended up staying later at work (communication smh) so I check the app to make sure and it shows that he’s at the freaking HOSPITAL!! I start panicking and all these thoughts are racing through my head! I try calling him again and he answered (like its no problem) he says he’s there for a physical for work. I was so mad and upset and starting to cry I just hung up and went home. He came home and asked what MY problem was! Seriously!! I just ignored him until I cooled down and told him that he could have shot me a text letting me know what he was doing or where he was going! He said I was being mean and out of control for getting upset/mad at him.
I honestly feel I have a right to be upset & mad at him about this!
OR am I over reacting and it’s not a big deal since he’s fine?
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