He’s a virgin.

So I’ve been talking to this kid and he’s a year older than me and a virgin and I’m not (we are in college). He told me he’s been waiting because he thinks that once you have sex there are lots of feelings attached so he’s been waiting for a girl who he actually cares about and sees something with. I really liked him at first but he’s been saying things that have started to bother me and if he continues I don’t know how long we will keep talking. I told him I don’t want anything serious rn and that we aren’t exclusive yet. But, the other night he mentioned that he wants to have sex with me. We are on winter break so it would happen later on but I feel like I shouldn’t take his virginity if I’m not sure about him yet, but he wants to. If I didn’t think it meant that much to him I would be down but I don’t want to do it and then stop talking and him be mad about it. What do I do??

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