Confused.

This will be my 4th child, I honestly can’t tell if I’m in labor. I’ve been timing my contractions for the passed couple hours. Eating, bathing, moving around, laying down hasn’t helped me. They aren’t painful. I think I’ve had about 4 that we’re uncomfortable but not painful. Others are just tightening. I’ve evening having about 6-7 a hour. They aren’t consistent with the times either. My husband wants to go to the hospital but i don’t wanna get sent home. Ughhh.. idk what to do atm.