Clit Stimulation

So I’ve never orgasmed and I’m trying to figure out how to get there. I’ve never been a big fan of having my clit stimulated..usually it just feels more uncomfortable and almost ticklish..like I am almost uncontrollably squirming. Is this the beginning of an orgasm and I just need to wait it out? Also whenever my clit is stimulated I get this really heavy and tingly feeling in my arms and legs...also whenever i try masterbating (clit&penetration) nothing really happens and when my bf does stuff to me or we have sex its feels good but not like WOW...I’m pretty new to sex so I’m still trying to figure everything out